Enjoy A Night-In by Giving Your Partner a Body Rub

More than a back rub, a body rub is a sensual massage with roots in ancient civilizations and practices. A Body Rub expert tells you how to bring it home.

Erotic, sensual, body rubs, whatever you call them, one thing is for certain- using sensual massage practices in a long term relationship is a sure-fire way to improve intimacy, reduce stress, and create a loving and lasting relationship.

Learning how to integrate erotic massage into your standard foreplay routine isn’t just a great way to spice up your sex life. You’ll also be actively improving the sexual and emotional bond that you and your partner share. “I think what is so important for people to understand is that body rubs are spectacular for any type of relationship. People love to feel loved, valued, and desired. These feelings of security reduce stress and promote a better life for everyone involved.” Says the creator of a site called Elite Indulgence, offering body rubs, sensual massage, and companionship to those in need.

“We’ve all heard of tantric massage- but a good body rub will take influences from a number of different cultures and religions, giving you a variety of techniques, so you can really take the time to figure out which style works best for you and your partner.

How to Give a Sensual Body Rub

Elite Indulgence says that there are a few key factors to giving a spectacular body rub.

1.     Set the Mood

Create a relaxing space to get both you and your partner in the mood. Candles, incense, nice body oils. Have all of this on hand. Remember to place a towel or a pretty sheet down on any surface you plan on giving the erotic body rub on. As the best body rubs require a decent amount of oil, you’ll want to stop it from staining certain surfaces. Put on music you both enjoy and use a generous amount of oil all over your body.

2.     Go Slow

Take your time to enjoy what’s happening. You don’t need to rush it. Pay close attention to areas of the body that rarely get to enjoy touch. Slow, sweeping movements with your hands and body will make the experience more pleasurable for everyone. Use stroking movements- not scrubbing movements. You want all of your movements to feel fluid and relaxed. You don’t need deep pinpoint pressure, but broad heavy pressure is very nice for many people. Consider integrating with toys like blindfolds or feathers into your body rubs. Also, talk about the addition of these things before you add them.

3.     Pay Attention

Keep talking to your partner. Listen to their verbal cues and watch their body responses. Pay attention to how they respond physically when the say something feels good. Pay attention to the zones they like most. Making more like a sensual treasure hunt. Use a variety of body parts and pressures to get the response you’re looking for. Lightly draw shapes along your partners back while slowly and steadily increase pressure and surface area. Start with your fingertips and work up to a Body to Body massage.